That makes no sense... NO girl wants a young 20 year old VERY rich military(buff) man...
I'm not gay or anything, but that sounds like a girl's dream guy... So you might want to take Ryder's advice.
Pay a midget ninja doctor to go do a little snipping late at night.
I bet for $350 and on craigslist that blackjack is already getting a bunch of calls for it. You can sell anything on craigslist.