Girls love confidence, someone to make them smile and they are smitten for cool.
Cool can be the way you dress, the way you hold yourself, how passionate you are and what youre willing to do to to stick up for what you believe in.
Dress is important. Taking care of ones appearance is the first thing you should do. Also personal hygiene. Extrinsically, before someone even gets to know you, they have built a perception of you by the way you look.
Internally - Confidence and charisma. Body language.
Are you calm or on edge? Screaming inside but not saying a word? Body language communicates subconscious feelings, so its important to feel calm and relaxed and youll appear calm and relaxed.
Women sense tension and fear, and its not attractive to them.
Having or developing a sense of humour is important too. My sense of humour is dark and twisted. Watching loads of class stand ups helps. I like jimmy carr, jack dee, lee evans and russell brand.
Develop some interests that actually are interesting to others. Talking about computers will quickly have her nodding off unless shes a geek. Depends what ur into.
Dont be a noob when it comes to girls(or at least dont act like one) saying stuff like i really like you, youre amazing. It gives the wrong impression to the girl recieving the wonderful comment. Save that sh!t for marriage. Funnily, youll get better responses from girl by being a little bit mean (not horrible and spiteful, but playful) like, ur nose wiggles when you talk, its cute - for example
Dont expect to run before you can walk. Very few people are born with innate or intuitive skills with women. Practice approaching and expect knock backs from girls, sooner or later youll score, like football, you know. Just get smarted each time, and dont be hard on yourself. Rejection is natures way of making you try harder
Also, dont rush from just knowing a girl to asking her out the next day. things take time to develop, sometimes they are instant, but usually developing relationships take time.
Be ahead of the situation between you both - by understanding your position and any barriers that exist between you, and break them down. If you jump in for the money too soon, you will leave with nothing, like Millionaire, you know?
Ive never asked out a girl, we both just know its developed to an intimate level... asking out isnt my style, i be myself. This is what is attractive, not being needy. Needy is a big turn off
Its like, you have to appear as needing no one. Independant and free. thats sexy
Last one, very important, yet so simple. Smile
A smile is very powerful. Feel it
Peace