You misunderstood. The main factor in finding a "mate" is their apperance. That's what sparks your interest, and makes you go up to her and talk to her. If you weren't attracted to her looks, you would have never payed enough attention to her to get into a real relationship.
Also, I'm not refering to you at all Kev, as you had an exception and found out she liked you. But it still applies really. She never talked to you but she was attracted to you by shear looks. Now I'm not saying looks is everything. It's second to personality in my opinion. Once you start talking to a girl you like you start getting to know her, and can decide weather you do like her or not.
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